Tuesday, October 2, 2018

Don't Call Them 'Negro'. 'Black' Is Just Fine.

'Negro' is a very offensive and nasty word that no one should ever use. 'Black people' is more respectful.

Not all blacks are African.
They can be Jamaicans or a native Australians (Aborigines) and they totally look black.
I don't think I can call them 'Africans' just as I did not fit if am called chinese, siamese, japanese, korean or even filipino etc cuz am perfectly malay.

Yes, that's what it is 😊😊

My morning thought,
Morning beautiful people.
Muka tak mandi uolsss 😂😂


Monday, September 24, 2018

Aku Tidak Akan Pernah Lupa Kerana Mereka Telah Kau Sakiti

USTAZAH..

..dan ustaz, kami ada cerita.

Sungguh ini kisah nyata,
Tak tahu dimana adab mereka,
Entah apa letak dikepala.

Apa fikir mereka?
Anak didik seusia,
Tak punya rasa?
Tak punya jiwa?

Stigma dan dogma,
Nilai dan hukum tanpa bicara.
Tanpa perimanusia,
Malah tanpa jelas salahnya apa,

Kejamnya!!!

Tak mengapa,
TUHAN itu ada,
Tidak sekali lenanya DIA,
Yang dirobek jiwa dan rasa,
Dengan lisan nista,
Si pembawa agama.

Bersama bayu kudapat berita,
Sudah terbayar jiwa merana,
Itulah sebabnya,
Jangan tanya mengapa sirna,
Rasa memulia dan hormat didada...







Monday, September 10, 2018

Picnic at Teratak Angah Chalet, Kg. Kemensah

9 Sept. 2018

My public holiday on the weekend be like 👇

ps: freezing face #sejukweiiii location: teratak angah chalet, kg kemensah.


credit: sheikhkaza.blogspot.com


Sunday, September 9, 2018

The Nun with Ejima The Second...


#justthetwoofus
#ejimathesecondandmamaejima

..elok² bergolek layan sejuk atas katil, #ogaejima tanya pulak tak nak keluar ke sebab barang dapur dah habis.

Wah, good offer ni hahaha..hati tu nak keluar, nak sangat nonton #thenun..plan malam tadi ingat ke nak tengok morning showtime pagi ni, tapi bangun² pagi tadi mengantuk yaqmat lah pulak, so takde la pegi pagi tadi..membawak ke petang, terus ke malam.

Sudahnya, alang² orang tu dah bagi green light kan, kiter pun cakap la kat dia yang kiter maybe balik lambat sikit, dia pun tanya lah kiter "berapa lewat", kiter kata 2-3 jam, dia mampu geleng kepala je sebab dia dah dapat agak for sure dia kena pau lagi 😂😂

..dan pengakhir-kisah nya, #mamaejimaandejimathesecond pun saling berpelukan tangan dalam dewan gelap yang bergema looollll 😂😂

Bukan mummy yang takut yer, mek kerinting tu yang takut 😂😂
Habis lengan mummy dia ramas, tarik, picit, tindih.

Kejap dia himpit, kejap dia nyorok kepala belakang mummy hahaha..padahal dia yang beria² nak teman.

Kakak takde mood nak ikut -- pms, dia nak rehat kat rumah je. That's why kitorang berdua je malam ni.

Lps movie, gi chow kit beli lauk, sayur lebih kurang then balik rumah. Ingat mummy boleh rest, sekali bapak er pulak cakap nak makan. Takde tukar² baju dah, terus mummy bersilat kat dapur. Kalau cakap mummy tak sayang lagi, tak tau lah kan 😋😋

Itulah kisah kehidupan mummy and #theejimas untuk hari ini.
Till next post guys..

#cewaahhh 😂😂






Wednesday, August 29, 2018

Pejamkan Mata - Malique

Halus seni ayatnya.

Setiap mahakarya insan nan satu ini berhasil menzahirkan apa yang aku rasa. Terlalu dekat dengan hati aku...

Sangat dekat!!!!

...dan Sebermula maka dipaksa diam,
Dengar - patuh dan terpaku tunduk,
Selesakan di bawah sujudnya rujuk telunjuk,
Tenagamu kencanaku katanya fitrah gawai,
Kedanamu ketawaku dekahnya hingga sawai,
Berontak dongak lembayung ku,
Ternampakkan si hering, Menyorak ngoyak awan, Canggung dan berantakan,
Dah diragut total,
Cinta resiprokal,
Bila dipersoal kekal equivocal,
Katanya tanggal tali leher itu,
Cukuplah seharian digembala,
Lupuskan logarithma yang menghantui kepala,
Dalam tafakur - akur - sadur mimpi yang dikabur,
Karektor kartun kantor dan karikatur dictator,
Dikabur takbur shabab yang bermusim,
Tak punya tempat di benak jiwaku,
Jemaah mereka bermukim -

Al-malik, al-kudus, as salam, al-Mukmin

Ubat gementar senja suara ngekor roh ke kasur,
Masyghul, runsing

Aku terdengar suara itu lagi,
Dari tenggara namaku diseru,
Disuruh hembusnya lilin di setiap empat penjuru,
Katanya mata penamu tak mencoret solusi,
Kata magismu takkan mampu cetus revolusi,
Manusia kan sentiasa menyakiti,
Yang tak membunuh buatmu kebal sehari lagi,
Masa untuk koktel Lorazepam, Ambien, Risperdal,
Semoga afdal bertemu di astral,
Selamat tiba kita ke republik cinta,
Lagenda dimensi ruang dan waktu,
Tak bersempadan,
Halaman terbentang suci - dicuci noda dan nista,
Terhapus dogma dan stigma, kepincangan dan kehilangan
Arasy yang tiada penghuni mengugut buli,
Tak perlukan runut bunyi, s
Sembunyi bersunyi sakan di hati dan pituitari menarinya tanpa bumi,
Menyanyinya tanpa bunyi, keghaibannya kita raikan..

Hakikatnya nirvana di sana,
Di sini masih lagi samsara,
Cuba tak diperhambanya dunia,
Sukar tapi aku cuba...
Sukar tapi aku cuba ya...

Tuesday, August 28, 2018

My Kinda Solution & Contribution...


teamdrrafidah #teammedic
My personal view, solution and contribution on this issue - the dressars & co. facebook post (dated 28 August 2018)


Ni bkn tentang melayu nak bunuh melayu or nak tabur pasir dalam periuk nasik sebangsa ke ape.

Awareness Dr. Rafidah ni melangkaui fonemena yang lebih kritikal dari tu.

Buah pinggang umpama nyawa kehidupan, hanya individu yang berdepan dengan risiko kerosakkan buah pinggang aje yang mengerti maksud Dr. Rafidah ni agaknya.

Yang marah jangan melenting tapi belajarlah. Ambil tahu kenapa kempen kesedaran seperti ini terpaksa di gerakkan secara "agresif".

I have lost my uncle due to kidney failure berasbabkan produk supplement drink berasaskan protein dari kekacang. Indeed, he's a chronic diabetic and gout. He possibly takde knowledge yg product tu might harm him.

I have witnessed his wife jaga dia dgn diabetic management yg baik ikut saranan doktor dan he's health condition sangat stabil until on the day his cousin datang promote produk tu kononnya baik untuk supply all vitamins yg dia perlu which is at the exact time, dia diharamkan dari mengambil apa² supplement berasaskan market's product. 

Halangan wife dan anak² pun dah tak diendah sebabnya zaman tu belum ada media social yang mampu spread awareness aggressively. Apa kata founder tu la yang terbaik, kerana pada dia founder dah guaranty supplement ni bagus. Why doubt kan!!

Just 3 weeks (sort of) after that, he passed on.

Yes, indeed. Masa dan ajal dia dah sampai. Mungkin dia yg 'cari nahas' cus dah tahu sakit but still nak consume the product. But things clearly can be controlled and avoided. 

Did he aware about the effects at the first place? 
Did he know that the product might be his killer?

This is what Dr Rafidah is doing - she's spreading awareness for the controls and avoids damage. 

Ini kerana kes nephro dikalangan individu kurang dari 40 tahun di Malaysia kini berada pada tahap yang sangat membimbangkan. 

Kerisauan yg patut timbul haruslah beyond than risaukan poket orang melayu/ibu tunggal rata²nya.

Maybe kalau knowledge such as what Dr. Rafidah sebarkan ni ada by that era, possibly he won't b manipulated.

Sellers shouldn't melenting, gula pun mudarat, cuma awareness of the effects pengambilan gula berlebihan need to go seiring with the penjualan supaya customers can be aware.

Drugs as well, dgn prescription yang tak terkawal it can be racun dan pembunuh instead of sepatutnya it supposedly to be penawar.

Konklusinya, apapun if berlebihan - might harm - Life taught me that. Its wrong to live in denial even truth may hurts.






Sunday, August 26, 2018

Pulang



26 Ogos 2018 ~~
Selesai 55 bab < 24 jam.

Noktah barisan ayat terakhir aku habisi dengan perasaan yang bercampur baur.

Hairan.

Mengapa wujudnya segolongan insan yang tegar memilih untuk pendamkan segala rasa hingga berakhir dengan derita.

Luahkan dan berhadapanlah dengan hidup yang diinginkan agar hati tidak tertanya². Sesungguhnya, seribu satu perkara yang ternampak zahir tidak selalu seerti dengan batinnya.

Luahkanlah supaya semua mengerti dan tiada yang merenta dihati...

Sunday, August 19, 2018

Black Skin Barbie Dolls Is Dope!!!!

Black barbie doll ni actually dapat naikkan semangat dark skin or African mixed girls so that diorang lebih menghargai diri and kecantikan sendiri.

Our girls really need this kind of stuffs, this is because this type of toys dpt encourage them to appreciate their own self.

Twins time kecik² dulu just main barbie fair skin long & straight hair. Bila meningkat usia awal remaja, they always rasa down and nakkan fair skin and rambut panjang and lurus mcm Barbie diorang. But since they knew that ada Barbie with afro curly coily and kinky hair macam ni, even dh tua bangka still beriya suruh beli sebab kata diorang dark skin barbie ni rare unik and special.

There you go!!!

Mummy pun cakap la, that is how 'world' looking at you. As unik and beautiful as this black barbie dolls 😊

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barbie.martel.co

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Friday, August 17, 2018

The Happiest Momma On Earth

Today, just 2 of us.

Adik tak ikut, nak stay at home sebab tunggu drama TV3 pukul 7. Her favorite artist - ayda jebat berlakon. So, dengan rasminya dia akan cancel semua activity antara 7pm - 8pm sampailah habis drama episode ni, zumba class pun dia postpone sanggup dia xikut.

Actually, kitorang nak pegi beli barang dapo, but before sampai market, my baby girl (yang not so baby anymore) asked me to stop by the lake garden. Nak lepak² tepi tasik katanya.

Mummy pun stop tepi and jalan² keliling tasik sambil² take picture kakak.

Those smile and her hair. Jarang sangat kitorang outing dengan rambut segojes dan shiny macam ni. All this hasil we attend curly hair workshop last 2 weeks. Outing was always with dry and messy fro before but no more now!!!

She's so happy and confident nowadays. I'm the happiest momma on earth 💖💖💖







Monday, August 6, 2018

Malaysia's First Ever Curly & Coily Hair Workshop 1.0

Malaysia's 1st ever curly and coily hair workshop 1.0 is a success yeayyy.

Because the 'battle' between asian moms and our girl's afro is real!!!

Organized by our pretty african asian mixed sweetheart - Fadeela.

Wonderful workshop which is so enjoyable not only for the kids, but for the moms as well.


Fadeela, her sister, Hikma and I

Its truly knowledgeable. Here is some sharing. For this process, we need to prepare:-

1) Honey


southcoastsun.co.za

2) Hair oil (could be coconut/olive/any possible oil for hair)

nutrion.org.uk

3) Shower cap

dillyscollection.com

4) Water spray

amazon.com

5) Hair band

amazon.com

6) Cantu moisturizing curly and coily hair activator.
amazon.com


Let's get started.

1) Start with water spray, honey and oil mixture with 3:1 part 3 part of honey : 1part of oil.
(Can be any type of oil which possible to use for hair as our DIY hair mask, water is needed to wet moist their hair)



2) Apply honey and oil mixture (DIY hair mask) to the scalp thoroughly and cover their hair with shower cap for maximum 20 minutes.



3) After 20 minutes, rinse their hair with shampoo.

4) Apply Cantu moisturizing curly and coily hair activator accordingly, and you're done!!!




Things we should put extra attention:-

1)  Don't apply shampoo on their hair tips, this is because curly and coil hair received its natural moisturizer slower than straight hair according to its physical texture (curl and coil) shampoo on their hair tips can caused terrible dryness since shampoo would wash out the natural hair moisturizer before it reach the tips. Shampoo on their scalp is good enough.

2) Use thick hair bands (not thin ones) to avoid breakage

3) Comb gently, finger comb is the best, wide tooth comb is also good.

4) Don't wash their hair frequently, once a week is still fine. This type of hair will be just fine (even better) even though they didn't wash it for 1 week. This is because the natural moisturizer manage to finished its journey to completely moist the hair.

Now I know, why chiomyra's hair always dry!!!!

5) Don't blow/iron (straighten) their hair because the heat may damage their hair.

We really had a great fun!!!!





If anyone wants to get the cantu moisturizing curly hair activator, can contact Fadee through her Fb: Fadeela Al-Hassan

VOILA!!!!


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