How good, to escape the right and wrong, good and bad. Black and white which brings me to my point :-
During the conversation, the topic of interracial relationships arose.
Perceptions and thoughts on the subject became clear.
She's judgmental!!!!
During their conversation, one commented, simply:
“Why do you care what choices those other people are making?
I see many of asians entering into wonderful, loving relationships with black men. I see happiness and strength, and when I see a couple that I would generally stereotype cuddling on the public trains or holding hands through the roadsides, I really have to check myself.
Why spend time passing judgment on things I don’t even try to understand?
Why do I continuing to do this?
I’ve got it.
The reality is that's individual jealousies. And the problem exists in their own head, not the interracial union.
Which is surely upsetting the other party, even though she can’t understand all the complexities of others, she should have to accept them.
And even better, they can ask in my God-given joy of delving deep and understanding their own complexities.
There’s no place for judgement in self discovery.
So I’m kicking all those judgmental thoughts to the curb.
